Personally with Dan.
The same coach from your first call to every private session.
RELATIONSHIP COACHING FOR MEN
Less distance.
More connection.
One-on-one relationship coaching
for men who want a healthier connection.
Work personally with Dan to understand recurring conflict, communicate your needs and make clearer decisions about your relationship—even if your partner isn’t ready to take part.
A confidential conversation, personally with Dan.
5,000+Trained with fellow coaches
1,000+People coached personally
Since 2014Men’s coaching experience
Experienced, personal support.
Honest questions and practical support, grounded in years of coaching men.
Start on your own.
Your partner doesn’t need to attend. We start with your choices and next steps.
WHO THIS COACHING IS FOR
You’re together.
But something feels missing.
For men who feel disconnected, caught in repeated arguments or uncertain about their relationship. You don’t need to wait for a crisis, and you can begin on your own.
THE DISTANCE
More like roommates
than partners.
You manage life together, but miss the warmth, affection and closeness you used to share.
THE SAME ARGUMENT
You talk. Somehow,
you still feel unheard.
One of you gets defensive or shuts down. The conversation ends, but the issue stays with you.
THE UNCERTAINTY
You’re trying hard.
You’re not sure what helps.
Perhaps your partner has asked for space, intimacy has changed, or you’re unsure of your next step.
A DIFFERENT STARTING POINT
Start with what
you can change.
Focusing on your part doesn’t mean taking responsibility for the whole relationship. It means finding choices you can make with greater clarity and self-respect.
Explore your next stepLESS OF THE OLD PATTERN. MORE INTENTION.
FROMReacting in the momentTOWARDResponding with clarity
FROMAvoiding a difficult conversationTOWARDSaying what matters, calmly
FROMLooking for the right reactionTOWARDKnowing your needs and boundaries
You can choose your response. Your partner’s choices remain their own.
WHAT YOU GET FROM COACHING
Personal support.
Useful in your real life.
Conversations with Dan focus on your own situations. Together, you’ll turn a clearer understanding into practical choices you can try.
Understand what keeps happening.
Dan helps you explore the habits, expectations and reactions behind recurring conflict.
HOW THIS CAN HELP
Recognize the pattern earlier and choose a more thoughtful response.
Work on difficult conversations.
Explore how you express your needs, listen and respond when a conversation feels tense.
HOW THIS CAN HELP
Say what matters more clearly, with less blame and defensiveness.
Clarify your needs and boundaries.
Make space to understand what you need, what you can influence and what you’re willing to accept.
HOW THIS CAN HELP
Make decisions with greater self-respect, rather than reacting out of fear.
Put your next step into practice.
Bring real situations back to your coaching conversations. Reflect with Dan on what happened and what to try next.
HOW THIS CAN HELP
Turn insight into everyday action, with personal support as you learn.
We’ll agree what to focus on together. The work is personal to your situation and goals.
A CLEAR WAY FORWARD
Less going around in circles.
More moving forward.
You don’t need a perfect explanation.
Just a willingness to start the conversation.
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START WITH A CONVERSATION
Tell me what’s happening.
Your free 60-minute call is directly with Dan. Talk about your situation, ask questions and explore whether coaching feels right.
No pressure. No obligation. - 02
UNDERSTAND WHAT’S UNDERNEATH
See the pattern clearly.
If we work together, we’ll explore the habits, beliefs and choices behind the problem and agree where to focus.
Coaching options and fees agreed before you commit. - 03
MAKE IT PART OF EVERYDAY LIFE
Take a different next step.
Have the conversation. Make the decision. Try a new response, then reflect and adjust with personal support.
Practical action. Honest accountability.
MEET YOUR COACH
A real person.
In your corner.
I’m Dan. A husband, a father of three and a men’s coach.
I’ll listen carefully, ask direct questions and help you see the habits that are difficult to spot for yourself. Together, we’ll focus on practical changes you can try in the life you already have.
One coach. Personally involved.
Work directly with Dan, from your first conversation onward.
Support you can put into practice.
Explore real situations and choose practical changes to try in everyday life.
Clear before you commit.
Discuss the coaching options and fees before deciding what fits.
A CLIENT’S EXPERIENCE
“His wisdom, curiosity and accountability were fundamental in changing everything in my life. Career, family and relationships have all improved as a result of my work with Dan.”
Dan FritschFormer coaching client
BEFORE WE TALK
Good questions.
Honest answers.
Bring your own questions to the first call, or get in touch beforehand.
Ask Dan directly01Does my partner need to attend?
No. This is one-on-one coaching for you. We focus on your experience, communication, boundaries and decisions. You can begin even if your partner isn’t looking for support.
02Can coaching help if my partner has asked for space?
We can explore how you’re responding, what respecting that request looks like in your situation and what you need for yourself. The aim is to help you act thoughtfully while facing uncertainty. Dan cannot predict whether your partner will choose to reconnect.
03Can we talk about lost affection or a sexless relationship?
Yes. You can bring concerns about affection, emotional closeness or sex. We can work on how you discuss your needs, listen to your partner and respond to differences without pressure. Your partner’s consent and choices remain their own.
04Is this the same as couples counseling?
Dan’s relationship coaching works with you individually. Couples counseling usually involves both partners working with a qualified practitioner. You can use the introductory call to discuss your goals and whether individual coaching is the right fit.
05Why focus on me when my partner also needs to change?
Focusing on your choices gives you something you can work with. It does not mean that the problems are all your fault or that you should accept everything your partner does. You can also explore your expectations, boundaries and what you are willing to continue with.
06What will the free call involve?
You’ll have 60 minutes directly with Dan to discuss what’s happening, what you’ve tried and what you want to change. We can explore a practical next step and whether ongoing coaching makes sense. There’s no obligation to continue.
07How long does coaching take, and what does it cost?
The right arrangement depends on your situation and goals. Dan will discuss the available coaching options, session frequency and fees before you commit. There is no fixed promise about how quickly your relationship will change.
08Will our conversations be private?
Coaching provides a private setting to discuss your situation. You can ask Dan about confidentiality and any limits before sharing sensitive information or deciding to work together.
09Can I work with Dan from the United States?
Yes. Dan is a UK-based coach offering online coaching to men in the United States and internationally. Include your city and time zone when you apply. Dan will contact you to agree a suitable time and the online call details; an application does not confirm a booking.
Dan DorePersonal coaching. Personally with Dan.
ONE-ON-ONEYOUR FIRST CONVERSATION
An honest conversation.
A useful first step.
60 minutesjust for youCOMPLIMENTARY
- A conversation focused on you
- Personally with Dan, from wherever you are
- No pressure. No obligation.
Send an application to start the conversation.
Dan will arrange your call personally.