How To Make Your Marriage Passionate Again

Want to know how to make your marriage passionate again? Are you feeling flat and uninspired by the poor connection, minimal affection and lack of sexual energy in your relationship?

In this episode I talk about a trait that many of us men are missing in our long term romantic relationships, how it relates to attraction and passion and what you can do to turn it around and bring the fun, playful, sexy, flirty passion back.

In the video below I explain this in more detail including:

Why in order to build trust and connection with a woman, a man must show unwavering commitment and conviction, and have a clear vision of who he wants to become and how he wants his circumstances to evolve.

Why women hate feeling indecision in the men they are in relationship with because it shows a lack of strength, conviction, values, standards, and confidence.

Why it’s attractive and reassuring to her when you stop being indecisive, make decisions and be willing to change direction if and when needed – if she’s not happy with your decision, that’s not about you, it’s about her and all it means is that there’s now another opportunity to make your next best leadership decision.

Why a lack of intimacy and affection is related to a lack of trust in struggling relationships and this is due to a lack of conviction and clarity in decision-making and direction-setting by the man – a lack of being willing to take the lead and have an opinion.

How taking risks and making a stand for what you believe in is essential for building trust, attraction, and connection in a marriage or long-term relationship.

Why it’s important to start making decisions from a stance of being committed and with direction for your marriage to regain the lost passion and how you will find yourself feeling more confident as you start being a more decisive man.

Why feeling indecisive about the state of your relationship affects your ability to make decisions and that detrimentally affects the connection and intimacy.

Why your partner not feeling safe and supported in the relationship will eventually end up with her keeping her self-protection walls up, challenging and testing you constantly, which is another reason why it’s the man’s job to learn how to lead, have a vision for where you want the relationship to go and be willing to make decisions and set the direction in the relationship future.

Committing to leading your relationship requires that you have a vision of who you are and what you want for yourself and your future so that you can have clarity about the decisions you need to make and also can give your partner a better relationship standard to live up to.

I go into this in more detail in the video below. If you would like some 1-to-1 support on how to move forward with your current life situation, fill out my contact form and I’ll get in touch to arrange a free 60 minute coaching session with you.

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About the author

Hi, I'm Dan. I've been a men’s coach for over 10 years with Goodguys2Greatmen, mentoring and coaching men to get clear on what they want and creating practical and actionable plans to make it happen. I’ve experienced many of the same challenges you're going through right now. I’m here to challenge you and help you understand what's holding you back so that you can step into the confident, successful man you were meant to be.