Can’t Decide Whether To Stay Married Or Divorce?

Are you confused with your relationship? Maybe you can’t decide whether to stay married or divorce? Maybe you’re unsure how to go about improving the connection and intimacy and affection with your wife?

In this episode I talk about the core of our coaching with men around making the right choices or even knowing what the right choice is for you and your future. This changes everything. The more clear and committed you are to the future you are choosing to head towards, the more chance you have of creating that, even if it seems as though your partner isn’t interested in coming with you.

In the video below I explain this in more detail including:

Why it’s important to listen to your body and the sensations it gives you in order to understand how you’re feeling, make the right choices in your relationships and to move towards what you want, rather than moving away from or avoiding what you don’t want.

Why it’s so difficult to decide whether to stay in a relationship or move on, especially when there are so many factors involved like all the history you share together, your shared property, finances, and kids etc.

How to reduce the options that are confusing you and get clarity that will help you to make a choice that moves you towards what you want and to know that you have the agency to make the right choices for you without having to please or justify yourself to anyone else.

How to focus on what you want while in a difficult situation without being overwhelmed by the many emotions going on and use a more creative, expansive energy instead of contracting and reacting from fear and frustration.

Why listening to your body and paying attention to the sensations and emotions will help you find the right answer for you in regards to staying married or choosing to divorce.

Why focusing on what you can control is essential for making choices that are the right path forward for you to create the life experience you want.

Why it’s so important to make these choices based on what you want, who you are and what you believe is important, and to not to make decisions to move away from something challenging – your values will guide you perfectly in these situations but you need to have clarity about your non-negotiable values both for yourself and for any relationship that you choose to be in.

Knowing who you are as a man (your character, what’s important to you and what you want for the future) makes it easier to choose whether you want to stay in this relationship or not based on its ability, willingness and potential for growth and development towards what you want (she may want completely different things from a relationship than you do).

Why, when you are authentically owning your own masculine grounded energy and vision of the future, you can easily know whether it’s the right time to stay and work on things, have difficult conversations, be vulnerable and create a better relationship or to choose to lead the ending of the relationship and head in a new direction with your life.

I go into this in more detail in the video below. If you would like some 1-to-1 support on how to move forward with your current life situation, fill out my contact form and I’ll get in touch to arrange a free 60 minute coaching session with you.

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About the author

Hi, I'm Dan. I've been a men’s coach for over 10 years with Goodguys2Greatmen, mentoring and coaching men to get clear on what they want and creating practical and actionable plans to make it happen. I’ve experienced many of the same challenges you're going through right now. I’m here to challenge you and help you understand what's holding you back so that you can step into the confident, successful man you were meant to be.