How To Know The Context Behind Your Wife’s Words

Want to understand how to know the context behind your wife’s words? Do you seem to make things worse when you’re trying to make things better in your relationship?

In this episode I explain 4 different ways that women express themselves and how understanding this can help you to relate to her words better so that she feels you understand her and how she’s really feeling right now.

In the video below I explain this in more detail including:

Why understanding the internal story and context behind a woman’s words can help in interpreting her feedback accurately.

Why open hearted feedback – when she can tell you honestly and openly how she’s feeling, both good and bad, without fear of how you’re going to receive it – is vitally important to keeping a strong emotional connection which will also help with the physical connection between you too.

Why women get so frustrated with us when we are unable to listen to them processing their feelings without taking it personally and getting defensive. (hint: she needs you to learn how to handle this)

How oftentimes she does actually want to connect with you, but is unsure about it and is nervous of your reaction, and some of the reasons this happens.

What it looks like when a woman speaks with a hidden heart, and why it means that she doesn’t feel safe to share her feelings with you – plus what to do about it.

Why the best way for men to learn and grow in relationships is to surround themselves with other men on the same path.

I go into this in more detail in the video below. If you would like some 1-to-1 support on how to move forward with your current life situation, fill out my contact form and I’ll get in touch to arrange a free 60 minute coaching session with you.

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About the author

Hi, I'm Dan. I've been a men’s coach for over 10 years with Goodguys2Greatmen, mentoring and coaching men to get clear on what they want and creating practical and actionable plans to make it happen. I’ve experienced many of the same challenges you're going through right now. I’m here to challenge you and help you understand what's holding you back so that you can step into the confident, successful man you were meant to be.