You may have lost hope that you can create good feelings in your wife like you used to earlier in your relationship. Maybe you’re hearing constant criticism as though everything you do is “the wrong thing” to do or she’s saying you never listen or that she can’t trust you or doesn’t feel safe with you.
In this episode I talk about a way that you as a man can be around her that can calm her fears, regulate her insecure thoughts and feelings and lead you both into a higher, more mature and closer and happier relationship again.
In the video below I explain this in more detail including:
Why loving your wife without needing a reason for it, just because of who she is, shows high regard and respect and creates an opportunity for her to do the same.
How to use criticism from your romantic partner as a beneficial “bid for your calm, masculine leadership” rather than something that guts you and makes you shrink away.
Why it’s so important to not take her small annoying behaviors personally and to maintain a high regard for yourself in a relationship.
How to be detached from her moods and criticism – it’s not about you, it’s about something she is dealing with and it’s an opportunity for you to provide something that she’s missing right now.
Why having a consistent high regard for yourself enables you to have high regard for her and for the relationship, which means you can then lead the marriage towards more of what you really want.
I go into this in more detail in the video below. If you would like some 1-to-1 support on how to move forward with your current life situation, fill out my contact form and I’ll get in touch to arrange a free 60 minute coaching session with you.
