Why Emasculation Only Happens If You Let It

Emasculation…it’s a very popular topic at the moment “women emasculating men”, but you are the creator of your feelings and placing your wellbeing and emotional stability in the hands of another person is both setting yourself up for being triggered or feeling emasculated and ending up stuck as the victim of an evil perpetrator.

In this episode I explain why this is just not true. Your masculine confidence and sense of self worth is something you create and manage every moment of every day and it’s one through the way you think about yourself and the power or importance you give other people and their opinions to dictate how you think of yourself.

In the video below I explain this in more detail including:

Why emasculation is a self-inflicted feeling that can be overcome by changing your mindset, becoming better at managing your thoughts and emotions and then choosing how to respond to any critical feedback and comments from a place of self confidence.

How emasculation happens when we have unrealistic or unagreed upon expectations of other people in our relationships, and how including an expectation that things don’t always work out for many reasons can remove the trigger of feeling emasculated.

Why it’s our reaction to those expectations not being met that causes the emotional trigger inside us that we call emasculation, so it’s actually our own perspective and the meaning we give that perspective that makes us feel emasculated, not the trigger itself.

When you understand that you have the power to choose how you respond to any situation and to choose what you make that situation mean about you and your future, you will no longer be able to be emasculated by anyone or anything.

Choosing to respond confidently to what’s in front of you, inline with your core personal values, you will never have to deal with feeling emasculated again.

You’ll become emasculation proof!

I go into this in more detail in the video below. If you would like some 1-to-1 support on how to move forward with your current life situation, fill out my contact form and I’ll get in touch to arrange a free 60 minute coaching session with you.

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About the author

Hi, I'm Dan. I've been a men’s coach for over 10 years with Goodguys2Greatmen, mentoring and coaching men to get clear on what they want and creating practical and actionable plans to make it happen. I’ve experienced many of the same challenges you're going through right now. I’m here to challenge you and help you understand what's holding you back so that you can step into the confident, successful man you were meant to be.