Why Your Wife Needs You To Take The Initiative

Want a better, more passionate, more connected marriage? In this article I explain why your wife needs you to take the initiative and create the right environment for her to feel attracted to you.

In the video below I explain more including:

The importance of being deliberate, relaxed, confident, and persistent in a relationship to succeed in turning around an unhappy marriage.

Why she needs you to take action first.

Why she can’t trust you if she has to tell you exactly what to do to lead the intimate connection.

The importance of developing yourself as a man, as a partner, as a lover, as a dad and why it’s an important part of her respecting and trusting your lead.

How safety is crucial for the vulnerability that closeness and intimacy requires.

Why women need men to take the lead in rebuilding a broken relationship, showing consistency and commitment to a different, better path forward.

Why men often want to have big intellectual conversations about changing the relationship and how it’s the little, subtle actions that make the relationship actually change and improve.

Why the willingness to take a risk and take action speaks volumes about your character, your masculine strength, your intentions and your commitment.

The key to a mutually loving relationship is consistent focus and effort, just like all good things in life.

I go into this in more detail in the video below. If you would like some 1-to-1 support on how to move forward with your current life situation, fill out my contact form and I’ll get in touch to arrange a free 60 minute coaching session with you.

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About the author

Hi, I'm Dan. I've been a men’s coach for over 10 years with Goodguys2Greatmen, mentoring and coaching men to get clear on what they want and creating practical and actionable plans to make it happen. I’ve experienced many of the same challenges you're going through right now. I’m here to challenge you and help you understand what's holding you back so that you can step into the confident, successful man you were meant to be.