Is Sex So Important That You Would Leave Me and Our Kids?

Have you ever heard your partner say something like “Is sex so important that you would leave me and our kids?” Does it shut down your ability to stand up for what you want from your life and relationship?

In this episode I talk about this in terms of what are you willing to stand for, stand against and what are you not willing to tolerate being a part of your future.

In the video below I explain this in more detail including:

Why attraction is created when you lovingly, calmly and confidently communicate what you want and invite them to join you on your journey which will be full of intimacy and connection.

Why being willing to walk away means holding onto your self-respect and self-worth in any conversation or argument – especially important when someone appears to be trying to shame your sexual desires.

Why it’s essential to be able to express your true feelings and opinions, even if it means risking the end of the relationship,.

How understanding how each other is feeling is the key to deepening the intimacy and connection in your marriage.

How being willing to walk away from an argument rather than digging in to prove your point is far more likely to create safety, trust, and attraction while also maintaining your personal integrity and self confidence.

Why being willing to walk away from a relationship that isn’t serving you is a powerful way to stand up for yourself and build your self confidence.

Why not letting someone else’s opinion shut down your desires for the kind of life and relationship you want is key in your ability to create that future.

I go into this in more detail in the video below. If you would like some 1-to-1 support on how to move forward with your current life situation, fill out my contact form and I’ll get in touch to arrange a free 60 minute coaching session with you.

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About the author

Hi, I'm Dan. I've been a men’s coach for over 10 years with Goodguys2Greatmen, mentoring and coaching men to get clear on what they want and creating practical and actionable plans to make it happen. I’ve experienced many of the same challenges you're going through right now. I’m here to challenge you and help you understand what's holding you back so that you can step into the confident, successful man you were meant to be.